Saturday, January 30, 2010

My Story, Part 1

As a ten year old girl sitting in GA's one Wednesday night, I prayed God would not send me to Africa. I grew up in a Southern Baptist church, in fact, my Grandpa was a Southern Baptist preacher. My parents made me go to GA's each week even though I protested. I learned about missionaries all over the world, prayed for them and even made little craft projects but I still never thought in a million years that God would ask me to live overseas. It never crossed my mind. I was quite happy where I was.

I met several MK's (Missionary's Kids) during my college years at OBU. I always thought they were interesting people. Not at all like me. They were well-rounded (well most of them) happily adjusted (yes, most of them) and they seem to have a bond which each other that I would never understand. One MK in particular caught my eye. I knew of him and sat near him in the cafeteria. The first thing I learned about him was that he was an MK ...from Africa. Did he live in a grass hut? (I'm not even kidding, I seriously wondered this!) I wondered what God was up to. Didn't He remember that I had prayed that prayer in GA's 9 years ago? Not Africa, Lord, not Africa.

His MK friends teased me mercilessly. This was an interesting group of people- and I felt like an outsider many times. They had their own private jokes and they would speak in French (or Spanish). I was just a girl from Dallas working towards getting a teaching degree. In spite of all this, I fell in love with this MK from Africa but still never once considered the thought that we would live overseas. Oh wait, there was one moment where he told me about traveling through the UK when he was in high school and saw a need for youth workers. I thought that was so noble of him and yes it would be so romantic to live in the UK. Rolling hills of green lush grass and hot tea. Sounds lovely. But it'll never happen.


10 comments:

LF said...

he he he...feels like it was yesterday!

Leah said...

So cool to hear the beginning of your story. Will be waiting to hear Part 2!

Sean and Lendy said...

We weren't THAT bad....were we?!? :)

Stephanie Kay said...

Ahhh, yes... I remember when! :) I also know that feeling of being an outsider in the MK crowd. And marrying an MK from Africa (and Asia). :) Just think of the adventures we would have missed if we'd picked Texas/Arkansas boys! :)

Joyce said...

I'm glad you're telling your story. Looking forward to part 2.

Anna said...

Ha ha! Yeah, when we met you guys, you so were not what we were expecting when we heard American missionaries were coming! And we were soooo glad :)
I think living in Wales is probably a little less scary than Africa ;)

Amy E. said...

Char..I never knew this story about you guys! Love it..can't wait for Part 2!

The Lyons Family said...

Love hearing about the years between RLT and Facebook! :) You sure left me hanging w/ this one - can't wait to hear Part 2!

Ann G said...

God has a funny way of working. I never knew Marc had thought of UK previously.

When Jeremy started talking of going overseas, I told him I'd go with him anywhere but Africa. Ha! Don't put God in a box is what I learned from that because here I am livin' in Africa!

Chad & Amy said...

The question now becomes... how does the "rolling hills and green lush grass, and tea" seem now? Romantic?

Gone are the days!