Monday, July 27, 2009

God Smiles

*Whoa, I just read what Beth Moore wrote here and how cool! I just love her!

It was a rainy Monday, about 4 weeks ago, we were at the park for Cerys' sports day. It was not a very fun day. I would say it was pouring down rain, but that would be an understatement. It was coming down in buckets!!!


I did not recognize quite a few of the other mum's and had just assumed they were all in the afternoon nursery session since it was a combined sports day. A young couple with three girls (!) came over to us and asked how old our girls were. We chatted, laughed about the weather and learned that our girls are pretty much the same age! They explained that they were just visiting and were going to be moving here from another city (about an hour away) and that their two oldest girls would be going to the same school. They had been on a tour of the school and were told about the sports day so they decided to come down there just to see if they could meet anyone. (God smiles.) As the rain got even worse and we were all about to get out of there, I asked if they had a mobile (cell) phone number in case they needed anything during their move, etc. The husbands exchanged numbers and we said goodbye. I commented to Marc how nice and kind they were and wondered if she wanted to be my friend. Ha. I am not kidding, I had to resist the urge to grab her arm and say, "Sowillyoupleasebemyfriend?"


See, I've been praying for a kindred spirit, and preferably one that is in the same stage of life as me. And to be completely honest, I had stopped praying about it because after two and a half years, it just wasn't happening. I know, real mature! I have been very lonely at times. But that is why I love how God works. He is faithful, even when we are not!


A few days after this encounter at the park I mentioned to the teacher that I had met that nice family and she said they were moving here to work with some church but she could not remember any details. I kind of coughed and cleared my throat and said, "Oh really, how wonderful!" I got home as soon as I could to tell Marc about it. God was up to something!


Over the course of the last few weeks, we have sent texts back and forth and spoken on the phone once.


To make a really long story short- they are about our same age, have three girls about the same ages, are coming to be the pastor of a nearby Baptist church, and will live about 10 minutes from our home. Our oldest girls will be in the same Reception (Kindergarten) class next year, and our middle girls will be in the same morning nursery class. Are you kidding me?


The other really cool part is that God has confirmed in my heart the school choice we made for Cerys. It was with fear and trembling that we chose this particular school. We are in a very diverse "inner city" area and I learned a hard lesson this past year about God's protection and provision for my kids. We have had a lovely teacher this past year and she and I have had many conversations about faith and life. She has been so kind to us and I've just been so thankful for her. Upon hearing that we had met this family she did some rearranging and pulled me aside the last week of school to tell me that she had asked permission of another parent to move their child to afternoon nursery so that this little girl could be in the morning class with Bailey. She also spoke to the Reception teacher and was able to get Cerys and their oldest girl to start school on the same day. At the start of a new school year, they stagger the start days for kids so that not all the kids start on the same day, which makes it easier for them and they don't feel so overwhelmed. So this precious teacher has shown our family favor by working it just so!


They all came over today for lunch. And stayed for 5 hours. All the girls played lovely together and had an absolute blast!


God is in the details. And even when I had lost hope, one unsuspecting, rainy day He plopped this family right in the middle of our path. And I bet He smiled. I'm so grateful and frankly kind of blown away right now.

20 comments:

Stephanie Kay said...

Thank you for sharing! Have you read Beth's post about God being in the details? :)

Joyce said...

That is an awesome story! I love it and am so happy you have found a friend. God is good.

Seth, Jen, Hannah, Cailyn, and Isaac said...

HOLY COW!!! That is so amazing!!!! Yay God!!!

The Hibbard Family said...

Oh, how I am crying. Thank you for sharing this precious story! My kindred spirits are all hundreds of miles away (one of them in the South Pacific with very limited internet), and there have been days I have just sobbed from the loneliness. Your story has reminded me that God has not forgotten me, and I'm so thankful to you for sharing!!

Amanda said...

No. Stinking. Way.

I am THRILLED for you.

Liz said...

this brought me tears. God is using you, my friend. I will be emailing you soon with details.

thejohnsons said...

Hi Charity! My mother-in-law, Cheryl Johnson, is friends with your in-laws in Africa. We ate lunch with the Verlanders when we visited Africa back in 2007. They were so kind to us! My mother-in-law told me about your blog and I just love reading it. My husband, Jeremy, talked with Marc back in January about going on the mission field. We were approved by the IMB this month and our leaving depends on the sell of our house. We plan to go to Belgium. Anyways, your blog has been an inspiration to me. We have 2 girls, a 4 year old and a 20 month old. This last blog was so awesome to read! It's just a wonderful reminder of how God is indeed in control of every aspect of our lives. Thanks for sharing your life in Wales with the rest of us!! God Bless!
Nellie Johnson

becca said...

that's so great!

Jonelle Yates said...

That's so awesome!!! That is my prayer for our time in Germany too. A good friend!!! Thanks for the post!

Jonelle Yates said...

That's so awesome!!! That is my prayer for our time in Germany too. A good friend!!! Thanks for the post!

Jonelle Yates said...

That's so awesome!!! That is my prayer for our time in Germany too. A good friend!!! Thanks for the post!

Jonelle Yates said...

That's so awesome!!! That is my prayer for our time in Germany too. A good friend!!! Thanks for the post!

Anna said...

This is fab Charity! I sooo know what you mean. I've prayed that prayer lots too and God has answered it mightily with loads of new friends in our church :-)
Goes without saying that we love you and Marc to bits and are so blessed to have you as our dear friends. But I understand that we aren't really in the same life stage as you. I always feel a step behind. I guess I see you as a big sister figure. Please don't take that to mean I think you're old - just that you seem to experience everything before me and then guide me through it :-) Anyway, just wanted to say "Thank you" x

Anonymous said...

Love it! God is so very good...all the time...and always in His time! No doubt, He has been at work teaching you things during your season of loneliness...and no doubt He is definitely smiling at all you have learned and accomplished during these years! I am so glad He has given you a new friend...and not just a new friend, but a seemingly perfect friend for where you are in life! I love when He shows us just a glimpse of His goodness!!! Thanks for sharing!

Marc and Charity said...

Thanks y'all, I am very excited! God is good!

Anna- y'all are dear to us!! just wished you lived in Cardiff :)

Allie said...

That's awesome charity!! There's hope for me yet ;-) just hope the mums around here are as nice and as friendly!! Yeah for new friends!!

Kecia said...

Wow... Now that is amazing...

God's ways are perfect!

Amber said...

Oh, Charity, that is amazing. I'm so happy for you.

God is just perfect.

I'm thrilled for your new friendship and stand in awe with you of this God of ours that is just so awesome.

Etta said...

Oh, Char, I am SO SO SO happy for you!! Yay God!

I guess I should start praying for one too...

Tad and Monica said...

Just this morning I was praying the same thing and you have encouraged me to keep doing it. I am SO thrilled for you.Having just one good friend can make such a difference.